Awful Article 12 — Asking for Help
We as humans are limited by our abilities. It does not mean we cannot learn new things. It means that our current self might not be able to resolve the problem at hand.
We may sometimes get stuck in things, we thought we had an understanding of. And when we come face to face with it realizing we are inadequate. It is a normal scenario. For things like these, first try to understand it by yourself. Sometimes you may get it and sometimes you might need help.
Don’t feel shy, or even worse, don’t beat yourself for it. Ask for help. Don’t be scared of it. It is something you have never faced and lack experience how to deal with it and its completely fine.
In your professional life it may be easy to ask for help because there are deadlines to be meet. And if you don’t do them, there will be consequences. But in private life, it may be the same boss fight but it’s more sneaky. It becomes more difficult to ask for help, as it may feel you should be able to tackle it. That is what our thought process is. And it will work most of the time. But sometimes you may need help.
Don’t think you are less of a human because you are not able to deal with your shit. The problem is clearly there, and respect it. As it is clearly hampering your life. Sometimes it is better to share it with your friends rather than dealing with it internally.
There are people around you that are ready to help. And if not then seeks the ones that can help you. All you have to do is gather enough courage to ask for help.
